When a Plan You Put Together Years Ago Comes to Fruition
Do you ever get the idea for something where the result will be YEARS in the future?!? You have no idea how it's going to turn out, but when that YEARS in the future day finally comes...it's surreal. 

We have just experienced one recently that I thought I would share --

When we had our first daughter (Victoria) in 2000, we intentionally decided to get her an ornament every year that signified something from that year of her life. It was definitely easier some years than others to think of and find an ornament than other years. There were the baby ones from the first year or two, then the Blues Clues and Strawberry Shortcake years.
(That Strawberry Shortcake ornament still smells like she did that first Christmas!) 

Then we moved on to the school years where there was the violin, art classes, elementary volleyball and tennis playing years. There are repeats of some of those because they were such a part of her life and there are always new and different ornaments! Many years, ornaments would come from grandparents as well.

Our plan was that when she got her own place, once she graduated college, that she would have these ornaments for her own Christmas tree so she wouldn't have to start from nothing. 

We are doing the same thing for our youngest daughter--Some of those elementary school play parts made it REALLY hard to find ornaments. Apologies to the woman in the Disney Store in Branson that I beat out in quickly reaching for the very last Rafiki ornament (and only one I ever saw, and I even scoured Disney World while we were there). 

Well last year as we packed up our tree, we separated out Victoria's ornaments since she was graduating in May and would be teaching somewhere this year. Fast forward to a few weeks ago when she put up her tree in her apartment and she was thankful to have her ornaments to go on it. It was a bit weird for her to have them on her own tree and a bit bare looking on our tree not having them.

However, it is an idea that worked exactly like I envisioned all those days (oh I mean years) ago!

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Several years ago I was so anxious about life and not handling it well and definitely not sleeping well. My shoulders stayed bunched up and there were days I did more yelling at my girls than encouraging them. No matter if I slept super well (rarely) or not...the afternoons were a black hole for me because I had no energy to do anything. I almost never had 2 productive days in a row because I would be too tired. 


During this same time period our youngest daughter was missing dozens of days of school each year because she got sick with every germ that entered our county it seemed. I was SO tired of getting calls to go get her at school. I was also so tired of being so tired! 


It got so bad, in fact, that I was sure one night I was having heart issues. I took myself to my doctor. He ran tests and quickly determined it wasn’t my heart but anxiety. I left his office with a prescription for meds and told this was just part of my life at this stage of life. I took these for a few weeks, maybe a couple of months, but took myself off because I’ve never been a fan of meds and couldn’t really tell they were helping a whole lot. I still wasn’t in a good place between this anxiety and then having a sick kid home so many days when she should have been at school. But I just decided to paint on a happy face and make do.


A blogger I regularly read started posting about how she was helping her family stay well and feel better. I was super intrigued and wanted to learn more. Since I didn’t know her, I asked around until I found someone I knew to answer my questions and educate me a bit. Once I learned a bit I was sold and ready to go. I’ll be honest though...I thought it was just a neat thing. I had NO IDEA it was going to help me and our family in so many life-changing ways.


I love that I don’t feel wound up tight anymore and can enjoy this life I have been blessed with. Our daughter doesn’t miss school for being sick anymore. In fact, she’s on her 2nd or 3rd year of no missed days for being sick. I have so much more energy all day long and I’m sleeping so much better. I don’t have to paint on a happy face anymore...I actually feel happy and am positively thriving in so many areas of life now, not just surviving.


Guess what? My daughters are thriving too because our relationship is SO much better because they feel better but they are around a mama that is not yelling at them but being an encourager and positive motivator in their lives. It's made all the difference!

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